Pay attention to the instructions provided. There are 3 common mistakes in mechanical work:
There are many commercial products available for ensuring that fasteners won't come loose, even if they are not torqued just right (a very common brand is Loctite(). If you're worried about getting something together tight enough to hold, but loose enough to avoid mechanical damage during assembly, one of these products might offer substantial insurance. Before choosing a threadlocking compound, read the label on the package and make sure the product is compatible with the materials, fluids, etc. involved.
Be sure to take your time and be patient, and always plan ahead. Allow yourself ample time to perform repairs and maintenance.